Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s can be incredibly challenging.
Understanding what not to do is just as important as knowing the right approach.
Here are some crucial missteps to steer clear of – along with better alternatives.
What is Alzheimer’s?
Alzheimer’s is a progressive brain disorder that affects memory, thinking, and behavior.
It gradually damages brain cells, making it harder for a person to remember, communicate, and perform daily tasks.
Over time, the disease worsens, leading to severe cognitive decline and dependency on full-time care.
What causes Alzheimer’s?
The exact cause of Alzheimer’s is not fully understood, but it is linked to abnormal protein build-ups in the brain, such as amyloid plaques and tau tangles.
Genetics, aging, and lifestyle factors like diet and exercise may also play a role in its development.
Early signs of Alzheimer’s
Early symptoms often include forgetfulness, difficulty finding words, trouble completing familiar tasks, and confusion about time or place.
As the disease progresses, memory loss and cognitive impairment become more severe, affecting daily life and independence.
Don’t rush through communication
People with Alzheimer’s often struggle with processing information and responding.
Speaking too quickly or interrupting them can cause frustration and anxiety. Instead, use simple words, speak slowly, and allow them time to express themselves.
Don’t overstimulate their environment
A cluttered, noisy space can lead to confusion and distress. Loud music, multiple conversations, or too many people around may overwhelm them.
Keep their surroundings calm and structured to help them feel secure and focused.
Don’t ignore their emotional needs
Even if they can’t articulate their feelings, people with Alzheimer’s still experience emotions deeply.
Dismissing their fears or frustrations can lead to isolation. Acknowledge their emotions, offer reassurance, and engage in activities that bring them comfort.
Don’t try to “fix” their memory
Quizzing them on past events or correcting their inaccuracies can be upsetting and counterproductive.
Instead of forcing them to remember, focus on enjoying the present moment and gently reminding them only when necessary.
Don’t take their behavior personally
Alzheimer’s can cause mood swings, aggression, or withdrawal. These behaviors are symptoms of the disease, not intentional actions.
Reacting with frustration or arguing will only escalate tensions. Redirect their attention and respond with patience and understanding.
Don’t talk about them where they might overhear
Even if they seem disengaged, they may still understand conversations about them.
Discussing their condition or care plan within earshot can make them feel excluded or embarrassed.
Always speak with respect and save sensitive topics for private conversations.
Effective communication strategies
To foster better interactions, try these techniques:
- Use short, clear sentences and yes-or-no questions.
- Maintain eye contact and use a warm tone.
- Approach them from the front to avoid startling them.
- Reinforce positive behaviors with encouragement.
This article is based on information from Verywell Mind.