We often discuss the impact of social media on children and teenagers, but we tend to overlook how deeply it influences adults.
Psychologist Trine Lind and behavioral designer Henrik Dresbøll explain how social media platforms keep us hooked and can harm our self-esteem.
Comparing ourselves to others
Many adults experience a negative impact on their self-esteem and body image due to the unrealistic ideals presented on social media.
The constant exposure to these perfect images can make us feel inadequate.
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We believe others have more exciting lives
Scrolling through vacation pictures, career achievements, and beautifully decorated homes can create the illusion that everyone else is living a more successful and fulfilling life than we are.
We underestimate how manipulative social media is
Social media is designed to keep us engaged for as long as possible. Algorithms continuously provide new content, making it difficult to stop scrolling.
We become addicted to rewards
Every notification, like, or comment triggers a dopamine release in our brain, giving us a short burst of happiness. This reward system keeps us coming back for more.
Social media steals our time and presence
Many of us spend hours on social media daily, often at the expense of real-life interactions with family and friends.
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We may be physically present but mentally absorbed in our screens.
Our brains are not built for endless content
Unlike a book or a movie that has an ending, social media never stops.
With infinite scrolling, there is always something new to see, making it hard to put our phones down.
Notifications exploit our curiosity
Sounds, vibrations, and pop-up messages are intentionally designed to grab our attention and draw us back to the platform.
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They create a sense of urgency, making us feel like we’re missing out.
Our behavior shapes the algorithms
The more we engage with specific types of content, the more similar content we are shown. This creates a cycle where social media reinforces and amplifies our habits.
We are role models for our children
We often worry about how much time kids spend on screens, but many adults struggle with the same issue.
Children mimic our behaviors – if we are constantly on our phones, they will see it as normal.
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We can take back control
By becoming more aware of how social media affects us, we can regain control over our usage.
Setting limits, turning off notifications, or taking breaks can help create a healthier relationship with these platforms.
This article is based on information from iForm.
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